The first bump in the road

I hope everyone had a nice little holiday break and I’d like to wish you all a Happy New Year, as well.
This past week has been mostly uneventful for me.  I was sick most of the time, and we all know that makes things so much more difficult.  I also found that having my wife [...]

Happy Holidays!

I hope everyone has a great holiday season!  I’m not sure how much I’ll get to post over the next week or so, so I’ll just leave you with a bit of a kinky update.  It’s my gift to you, lol!
 Friday night we spoke about the changes to my earning release.  My wife was fine [...]

Following up on new feelings

At All Times made a comment to my last post that got me thinking.  Specifically one part of the comment: 
Can I ask you whether your idea for a “savings scheme” is more about you looking for a way for your wife to deny you your orgasm, so that you will remain unfulfilled, whilst she has had her [...]

More new feelings

It’s strange the new feelings I continue to experience as we move further along into D/s and our arrangement.  When I received my assignments yesterday my wife informed me that we would be wrapping Christmas presents in the evening.  When we were done it was late and she was tired and ready for bed.  Before [...]

Our weekend

Friday night started out with my rushing to get my jobs done before the baby sitter arrived.  It was raining and traffic was a mess so she was running a bit late, which was fine because so was I.  After she arrived I left to pick up my wife from her office.  I drove us [...]

Embracing her role, and loving it!

I’ve told my wife in our regular conversations about our arrangement that the idea of her assignments really gets me going.  I mean it’s entirely mental.  The term “assignment” in itself turns me on, and then the daily anticipation of receiving the email and finally getting it and reading it and seeing what she expects [...]

The List

So, here is the first draft of my official list of chores and expectations from my wife.  Most of it was written by her, but I made a couple of suggestions and chose the days the jobs were to be done.  My wife has already told me that she plans on amending it, but for the time [...]

Settling into it

Well, that was a pretty great weekend!  My wife and I were able to spend a lot of time together and seem to be settling in to our arrangement nicely.  At this point I think she may even be more excited about it than I am.  It’s funny watching her do something and than say, [...]

Wow, she is all over this!

Friday night was date night.  We weren’t planning on a romantic date night, just a night away from the kids so we could have some time together and also do some Christmas shopping for the boys. 
Well, let me back up a bit.  Friday started kind of slow.  I didn’t get an email with an assignment.  [...]

Odds and ends and random

My wife had lunch today with a good friend of ours.  She asked how my new job was going.  My wife says she got very excited as she could talk to somebody about some of the changes in our life without really “talking” about it.  She explained to our friend that I work a minimal [...]