The State of Our Union…

Is freaking AWESOME!  OK, that’s a bit cheesy, but I’m glad to know that my worries were mostly unwarranted.
We went out Friday night for a low-budget, but delicious dinner of burgers and fried things with a couple of adult beverages.  We talked a bit about our jobs and what-not.  It was nice and relaxing and [...]

Anxious

So tonight’s the big night.  For the first time since new years eve I’ll be allowed an orgasm.  I’ve got to be honest, I’m a little nervous.  I don’t know why, but I am. 
We don’t really have anything planned for our date night.  I want to keep it pretty low key.  Maybe an inexpensive dinner [...]

The boundaries are broadening

As I’ve mentioned previously, my wife seems to be a little more obvious about our arrangement in front of the kids lately.  It’s funny, because there have been multiple instances where my oldest has asked his mother to tell me to do something because she is the boss of me.  She informs him that she [...]

Vanilla Swirl weekend

Well, it was a pretty uneventful weekend.  That’s not exactly true, but for the most part it was a plain ol’ vanilla weekend.  Oh, there were wisps of D/s, but apparently they went unnoticed.
 
I was a bit nervous the first day after they arrived.  Right off the bat my wife, while standing in the kitchen [...]

The new normalcy

Sometimes I catch myself thinking, “hmmm… I’m not feeling very wife-led” or “my wife hasn’t dominated me lately”.  OK, maybe that’s not exactly what I’m thinking, but you get what I mean.  Usually these thoughts pop into my head while I’m mopping the floor or cleaning the bathroom or doing one of the jobs my [...]

Oops!

It was a pretty vanilla weekend.  Actually, I guess our arrangement is fairly vanilla, so I guess that’s how it is most days.  I like that.  I think we’ve found the balance that we are both happy with. 
When it comes to the housekeeping aspect, my wife just seems to be pretty matter-of-fact about it.  When [...]

Procrastinating…

I’m feeling soooooo lazy and unmotivated today.  The last two nights at work were much busier than they have been lately and I’m a bit worn out from it.  I don’t have many chores to do today, and yet all I’ve done is tidy up the kitchen a bit.
I’ve been preoccupied with my stupid orgasm [...]

Talking through it

We had a good talk last night.  My wife had seen how worried I was when she left for work yesterday and gave the issue some thought.  She didn’t fully understand the problem until we started talking, though.
First off, everything about the arrangement seems magnified right now because we are so focused on it.  My [...]

More bumps

Well, it looks like we’ve run into another bumpy area on the road…
Last night, as usual, my wife and I sat talking on the couch.  I’d finally completed my long list of chores for the day and we were relaxing a bit before bed.  It was about time for my wife to go to sleep [...]

Preparing for a visit

The next week and a half will have me preparing for for a visit from my wife’s sister, brother-in-law, and their baby.  In anticipation of this my wife has rearranged my schedule a bit to better coincide with their arrival. 
I asked my wife if we should “tone things down” during their stay.  She told me [...]