As we evolve

I think it’s safe to say that the increased dominance my wife has shown lately is now the norm.  Although she hasn’t stepped it up any, she does seem to be finding some new ways to express her Dominant role, as well as increasing her dominant attitude in the things she already does.
One of the [...]

All in my head

I realised last night how much of the D/s part of our arrangement is in my head.  I don’t mean I’m imagining it or seeing something as D/s that isn’t.  Instead it’s more of a result of other actions causes me to react or think a certain way that I wouldn’t otherwise.  This may be [...]

Back again

As usual I was allowed to sleep in Saturday morning.  I awoke to an nice, quiet, empty house.  As I made the bed I found my wife’s toys under my pillow.  She places them there when she uses them alone so I will know to clean them for her and put them back in their [...]

Order is restored

Well, he’s finally gone.  He was supposed to leave yesterday… again.  We said our goodbyes and watched him go.  My wife and I celebrated by getting pizza and sending the kids to the family room for a “picnic” while we drank wine and ate pizza and talked.  We were feeling good and looking forward to [...]

The uninvited house guest.

I haven’t really had time to post lately as we’ve had a visitor staying with us, my wife’s cousin who visited at Easter.  It was short notice and we thought he was leaving two days ago.  I think it’s safe to say he has overstayed his welcome.
Not only has he overstayed his welcome because he [...]

Milestones

It’s so satisfying to watch my wife become more comfortable with herself in our arrangement.  We’ve both clearly had some set backs, perhaps even doubts about our arrangement.  But we’ve both been able to move past those and grow.  Right now I’d say my wife is blooming.  All the little acts of Dominance seem so [...]

Her reaction to my jealousy of the inanimate object

Last night my wife and I had to fill out some very boring forms online.  At one point she got up and left the room and I of course opened another window on the computer and googled “bullet vibe”.  I wasn’t trying to be sneaky or anything, I was just curious about prices as I’d [...]

Jealous of an inanimate object

Yesterday afternoon my wife called to ask me if I had cleaned her toys.  I told her I had, assuming she had meant her bullet vibe after our fun the previous night.  I thought perhaps I’d forgotten to put it away after washing it and she found it and wasn’t sure if it had been [...]

Kicking it up a bit

I don’t know if it’s my imagination or not, but since I’ve been back from my trip my wife seems to definitely be more aggressive in her dominance.  Actually, maybe it even started a few days before I left, with my ’send off’.  Either way, she seems a lot more comfortable in telling me what she wants [...]

I’m back

Well, actually I’ve been back for a while, but I’m just now recovering.
I had an amazingly fun and successful business trip abroad, but the jet lag upon returning was worse then I expected it to be.  To make it worse I think I’ve been a bit depressed about returning home.  Of course I missed my [...]