Well, it’s been just over a week since my wife’s sister and her family left, giving me just enough time to have to clean up for the visit from my mother-in-law who I have to pick up from the airport in a couple of hours. The house wasn’t really in too bad of shape. The kitchen floor was a little worse off than normal, but that’s only because I was waiting to clean it until last night so it would be all bright and shiny today.
My wife didn’t have to go in to work until noon yesterday due to the ice storm that seems to have rocked half the country. She did work from home for several hours while everyone slept, however. I got up with the kids to let her work some more before she beckoned me to the bed room. We rarely do anything naughty while the kids are awake, but as she’s made clear to me on many occasions, she is horniest early in the day. So I put the kids down in front of a movie that I knew would keep them occupied for at least half an hour and got into bed with my wife. She got out her toys, but ended up not needing them. Instead she smiled as she pushed my head beneath the blankets. After she had enjoyed enough oral pleasure she pulled me up and I entered her. I was really letting go and getting into it. I was certain that I’d be allowed an orgasm as we seemed to be mostly on my side of the bed and she wouldn’t be sleeping in bed anyway and it had been three weeks and… and… she had a wonderful orgasm and I rolled off of her. I slowly masturbated and kissed her shoulder as she lay enjoying the after effects. When she had come down she looked at me and said, “no”. I pleaded with her with my eyes and she again told me, “no, you cannot come”. I was crushed, and for the first time in weeks felt submissive.
We dressed and went about our day. My wife then informed me she was leaving to have her hair done before heading in to work. She surveyed the family room and kitchen and looked at me and said, “these rooms are a wreck, fix it”. I cleaned for the rest of the day, actually until about 1:30 am this morning. Most of the time I just thought about the fact that I won’t have another opportunity to orgasm until Monday night, pushing a month between orgasms. Two years in a row have started out with only one orgasm in the month of January. This year it wasn’t even close to my birthday. Not only did I not get birthday sex, the closest I got to birthday sex ended with continued denial. So much for trying to increase my orgasm percentage!
I feel so content right now. Yay for us.
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AFH – I am so pleased that you are so where I would like to be. Your wife seems more than content in using you and denying you, and having you take care of the domestic side of things at home, no wonder that you feel content right now.
i am still torn between asking for denial, almost suggesting a time frame, but wanted it to be more natural, a way that Jane could easily impose this level on control without too much effort or concern. But asking somehow almost defeats the object, if you know what I mean. I am sure that you have covered this but how did you communicate the fact that you wanted your wife to deny you, and what if antything made her see that it was as much in her interests as it was yours to keep you denyed
I find it interesting how we (men) can find eroticism in denying our basic needs. Of course, except in rare cases, that works only for a while. I am, and have been in the scenario that you describe, and enjoyed it. That is not saying that I would refuse daily orgasms if my wife decided to grant them to me.
But there is something intriguing about the scenario that you describe. Giving her her pleasure, and then be denied yours with only a hint of “maybe” later, is a tremendously motivating force. Your wife is a treasure.
At the moment I really wanted to have an orgasm. I reall, really did. It took me a few minutes to get over it as I guess I phased into a bit of a sub buzz taking over. But, like you, if my wife decided to go the opposite way with this and started making me orgasm multiple times a day, at this point I would be more than happy. I think it’s more the control than the frequency at this point, but I can’t really say without experiencing the opposite.