Sometimes vanilla IS kinky!

Well, it ended up being a pretty great weekend.  Of course, it was nothing like I imagined, which it never is.  I said at the end of my last post, “I’m really having a hard time keeping my mind from thinking about all sorts of deviant things, lol.  Oh, the possibilities!”.  Of course this was [...]

Emotional Parodoxes

I’m soooo excited about tonight.  It’s fairly ridiculous, really.  I can’t remember the last time I was this excited about something.  It’s been a few months, at the very least.  We are celebrating the first anniversary of our Arrangement tonight and I really want it to be special, but I don’t want it to seem [...]

A long post about not that much…

Last week my wife told me that she realised she was a week late but quickly realised it was because she’d messed up with her birth control.  Since her period had started she could look back and laugh.  One of the things she thought was funny is that she uses her current form of birth [...]

A quick note before I’m off on my trip

Things continue to be hectic as I prepare to leave in two days.  Without going into to many details, things are not going as smoothly as I’d like.  Oh, well.  Not much I can do about it now.
I jokingly appologized to my wife for the housework she was going to have to do while I [...]

The State of Our Union…

Is freaking AWESOME!  OK, that’s a bit cheesy, but I’m glad to know that my worries were mostly unwarranted.
We went out Friday night for a low-budget, but delicious dinner of burgers and fried things with a couple of adult beverages.  We talked a bit about our jobs and what-not.  It was nice and relaxing and [...]

Anxious

So tonight’s the big night.  For the first time since new years eve I’ll be allowed an orgasm.  I’ve got to be honest, I’m a little nervous.  I don’t know why, but I am. 
We don’t really have anything planned for our date night.  I want to keep it pretty low key.  Maybe an inexpensive dinner [...]

Vanilla Swirl weekend

Well, it was a pretty uneventful weekend.  That’s not exactly true, but for the most part it was a plain ol’ vanilla weekend.  Oh, there were wisps of D/s, but apparently they went unnoticed.
 
I was a bit nervous the first day after they arrived.  Right off the bat my wife, while standing in the kitchen [...]

Happy New Year!

After a nice dinner and getting the kids to bed my wife and I settled down to a rare New Years Eve together (I’ve worked most new years eve’s over the last 12 years).  We relaxed with a few drinks and talked.  I asked her about the dart game.  She giggled mischievously and told me I’d [...]

Our weekend

Friday night started out with my rushing to get my jobs done before the baby sitter arrived.  It was raining and traffic was a mess so she was running a bit late, which was fine because so was I.  After she arrived I left to pick up my wife from her office.  I drove us [...]

Embracing her role, and loving it!

I’ve told my wife in our regular conversations about our arrangement that the idea of her assignments really gets me going.  I mean it’s entirely mental.  The term “assignment” in itself turns me on, and then the daily anticipation of receiving the email and finally getting it and reading it and seeing what she expects [...]