Just a quick note

I mentioned a couple of posts ago that I had changed my attitude about expecting sex.  It was still a pretty new idea to me when I posted it, but I have to say that it has had a dramatic effect on my mental stability.  We are in what I would call a “lull”, but [...]

A new routine

Although I often mention our “talks” about our arrangement, we don’t really discuss it as often as it may appear.  Sure, we can openly talk about it, but it’s not like we do it all the time.  In between, though, when I’m not really sure how to talk about a certain topic, I send out [...]

This is fun… why wasn’t that more obvious before?

I think my wife and I have recently realized something that should have probably been obvious long ago.  This is FUN!  Aside from all the other benefits we both get from our arrangement we can really have fun with this.
It seems that after our little lull we have both started having a lot more fun [...]

Promotion and other thoughts

Before my wife left for the conference she is now attending she was informed that she had been promoted.  Her boss had taken another job several weeks ago and we were fairly confident that my wife was the #1 choice for replacement, but you can never be certain.  It will not be official until she [...]

Session one: it begins

Sunday morning my wife took the kids out for a good part of the day leaving me with a kiss and a directive to edge myself three times.  Ooooh, sexy.  I was very excited by the prospect of our new game and as I lazed in bed I fantasized about it.  Eventually I got up [...]

The Cock Ring Cometh

So the new cock ring arrived Wednesday.  God bless JT’s Stockroom for their speedy service.
When I first tried it on it seemed to fit nearly perfectly, maybe a tad on the loose side, but better too loose than too tight, right?  Right?  The thing is, I don’t really know.  I googled the hell out of [...]

On a roll

Last night as we were throwing together the last of  the Thanksgiving leftovers for dinner my wife stopped to thank me for “not being a jerk”.  She elaborated and explained that so many of the women she knows complain about their husbands.  They complain about their laziness, their attitudes, the way they are treated, etc.  [...]

Laying down the law

My wife has remained fairly strict with me.  I’m a bit surprised by it and even a little upset about this past Saturday.  I realised, though, that she must have been very upset with me to be treat me the way she did, so I got over it and then felt bad for being angry [...]

Milestones

It’s so satisfying to watch my wife become more comfortable with herself in our arrangement.  We’ve both clearly had some set backs, perhaps even doubts about our arrangement.  But we’ve both been able to move past those and grow.  Right now I’d say my wife is blooming.  All the little acts of Dominance seem so [...]

Oh, the anxiety!

I feel like I’m in a line for a really scary roller coaster.  I’m nervous and excited and wondering if I’m making a big mistake.  I want to get out of the line and I want the line to speed up so that the ride can start and I can’t get off.
The device may come [...]