Just a quick note

I mentioned a couple of posts ago that I had changed my attitude about expecting sex.  It was still a pretty new idea to me when I posted it, but I have to say that it has had a dramatic effect on my mental stability.  We are in what I would call a “lull”, but [...]

This is fun… why wasn’t that more obvious before?

I think my wife and I have recently realized something that should have probably been obvious long ago.  This is FUN!  Aside from all the other benefits we both get from our arrangement we can really have fun with this.
It seems that after our little lull we have both started having a lot more fun [...]

Second post of the day=massive sub space

With the kids sleeping over at a friends house tonight and my wife out of town I naturally assumed my wife would have one hell of a workout for me tonight.  Of course I have to go out and work later through the early morning hours, but still I have some time for messing around.
I [...]

Back on track (and getting it done right)

Well, I was able to scratch my wife’s itch last night successfully.  I could see in her eyes how much she really enjoyed the higher tempo and harder thrusts that had not really been involved in a while.  I’m sure the several beers I’d had earlier in the night helped greatly in this department, but [...]

Why the ‘choice’?

You can’t change who you are.  At least that’s the saying, right?  I think there is a lot of truth to that.  In our arrangement we aren’t really changing who we are, we’re just enhancing certain aspects, I think.  Of course, we may be doing things we wouldn’t otherwise be doing, but that’s not changing [...]

Given a choice

I worked late last night and was only able to get about four hours of fitful sleep before having to get up and go to a short meeting at work this morning.  I have to be back to work again tonight in a few hours.  My wife, kids and mother-in-law have left for the day [...]

Christmas is coming (that makes one of us)

Yesterday was my annual physical with Dr. Hottie (as my wife calls her).  I’m pretty sure I wrote about my physical last year, but I couldn’t find the post for it.  Maybe I didn’t write about it…  Anyway, my Dr. is a very attractive and intelligent young woman.  I had gone for years without a [...]

Laying down the law

My wife has remained fairly strict with me.  I’m a bit surprised by it and even a little upset about this past Saturday.  I realised, though, that she must have been very upset with me to be treat me the way she did, so I got over it and then felt bad for being angry [...]

As we evolve

I think it’s safe to say that the increased dominance my wife has shown lately is now the norm.  Although she hasn’t stepped it up any, she does seem to be finding some new ways to express her Dominant role, as well as increasing her dominant attitude in the things she already does.
One of the [...]

Milestones

It’s so satisfying to watch my wife become more comfortable with herself in our arrangement.  We’ve both clearly had some set backs, perhaps even doubts about our arrangement.  But we’ve both been able to move past those and grow.  Right now I’d say my wife is blooming.  All the little acts of Dominance seem so [...]