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Comment on Latest talk by allforher

allforher — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 18:05:33 +0000

It’s very reassuring to know that she WANTS to be a part of this and keep it going. It’s not just about some submissive fantasy of mine. It’s something we’ve grown into together and she enjoys it and wants it to continue. But, as always in life, sometimes are more difficult than others. Other aspects of our life are just taking too much of our attention right now. Oh, well. That’s life.

BTW, great post SP!

Comment on Latest talk by susan's pet

susan's pet — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 22:09:24 +0000

You are right on the “arrangement”. If you don’t have one, then there is no arrangement. The crucial part is to honor the arrangement, and over time it can simply disappear. Then later you think back, and say, “Well you know. It goes away.”

On the positive side, your introductory remark prompted me to post my own input on my blog. You might be amused by it.

Comment on Latest talk by allforher

allforher — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 18:08:40 +0000

I am at 18 for the year, which changes the math a bit. I was thinking I was at 17 so to be accurate I should have told her I needed one every five days. Frankly, with so little time left in the year the difference is negligible, lol.

I actually don’t remember my wife’s total, but I’d say our ratio is probably closer to 12:1 or 15:1, somewhere in there.

We did have one month recently that would be an outlier on the statistical chart. We only had sex three times and each had one orgasm on each occasion.

Comment on Latest talk by Paul

Paul — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 07:51:14 +0000

Hi, first time I’ve read your blog. This caught my attention, that you tracked your wife and your orgasms. I did that for a time (we’ve fallen a bit off the wagon I’m afraid) but I am curious: what are your actual numbers?
Over about a two month period, my wife “beat” me 3:1, but there were times when she would have like 7 in a row to my zero. I just thought it was fun to keep track =)

Comment on One of those days by Kathy's wife

Kathy's wife — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 04:13:56 +0000

I think every submissive experiences the same overwhelming need to be dominated, The only question is how often and how that need manifests itself.

Sometimes I need gentle, loving domination. I clean the house, do the laundry, cook dinner, run errands and do everything for my wife.

Sometimes I need to fuck my wife and have her make me clean up her messy pussy with my tongue.

Sometimes I need to be used; forced down on all fours and submit to a proper strap-on fucking, or maybe I have to be a ladies toilet and have women piss all over me.

Sometimes I need to be forced to suck a real cock and maybe submit to a good ass-fucking.

So there is nothing unusual about what you are feeling.

Comment on Everything is running smoothely… how boring by allforher

allforher — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 18:19:21 +0000

It’s likely that we’ve reached our limit on “where this can go”, and I’m OK with that. I accept that we all have limits and what we are doing now seems to be all that my wife is interested in. I’m happy to have that.
Maybe there will be some small changes in the future, but I don’t think we’ll ever make any drastic changes or take things much farther than we do now.

Comment on Everything is running smoothely… how boring by At all Times

At all Times — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 11:02:15 +0000

I am glad to hear that things are running smoothly for you both, but can sympathise with your need for more denial. Just because you have only had one orgasm in a month, doesn’t equal denial.

As you say, things can become too routine, and if you feel that there is no progression, then this can lead to frustration. Looking at this from the wife’s point of view, I wonder how much pressure they feel under to try new things or just let things develop naturally. I know that I am guilty, once I have experienced one fantasy or got to a certain stage, I am eager for Jane to take the next step, or try some other way of expressing her control. There is a danger though that she will reach her limit, if you like, then I am worried what will happen. Can a submissive husband ever truly be satisfied?

Comment on Football Sunday’s by susan's pet

susan's pet — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 22:50:30 +0000

Oh, you poor fool! If you ever think that you can figure her out, you are out in the sticks.

I have spent a life time, well, at least, it seems like a life time, to guess what my wife wants. Lately, I just give up. I get punished no matter what I try, and sometimes in a way that I did not prefer.

Hey, I love it. Anything coming from her in my direction is a gift from her to me. It’s called, “Wisdom with age,” son, live with it!

Comment on Just a quick note by allforher

allforher — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 18:40:14 +0000

I think I got to the edge so quickly more from the psychological aspect than the actual physical stimulation. Much more happened mentally in that brief period than physically.

Comment on Just a quick note by susan's pet

susan's pet — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 00:37:48 +0000

I may have said or thought what you said, “Would I prefer more intimacy? Absolutely! But I no longer expect it, so I’m not disappointed. ”

Then again, I am and have been in denial.

As for the rest of your post, I can assume that she is the best in oral sex, giving and receiving.

It would take me more than fifteen seconds to get near orgasm, no matter who provoked my tip. It is great that she gives you that. Your getting an orgasm is a great goal, then again, it is not necessarily her goal. But getting there is just as much fun.