Our weekend

Friday night started out with my rushing to get my jobs done before the baby sitter arrived.  It was raining and traffic was a mess so she was running a bit late, which was fine because so was I.  After she arrived I left to pick up my wife from her office.  I drove us to the Christmas party and held the small umbrella over her head while we walked to the home of the VP of her office.  Once there we headed towards the bar and she began introducing me to her co-workers.  Although the party had only started a half hour before we arrived the house was already filled with people which made moving around difficult. 

Once I had gotten us drinks we headed towards the food.  I built us a plate and we found a small corner where we could stand out of the way and eat and talk.  Basically, I held the plate while she ate at her leisure.  People would come up to us and I would be introduced and my wife would chat with them for a while before they moved on.  One woman commented to me, as I stood holding the plate out for my wife, that I was “quite a good plate holder”.  My wife commented that I had “many talents”.  Having worked in the service industry so long I told her that I could actually carry three plates on my arm without much trouble.

When my wife had finished eating (well, I snacked a bit as well) we began to circulate and I was introduced to more people, or, as my wife told me, I was shown off to her co-workers.  She thought of me as “arm-candy”, her sexy man that she kept at home.  I was introduced to a group of senior level employees and a high ranking older man asked me what I did for a living.  With my wife hanging on my arm I explained that I stayed home and raised our children and kept the house.  My wife beamed with pride. 

“Really”, he asked?  “Do you do anything else”? 

I explained that I worked two nights a week as well and he latched onto that and started asking questions about my part-time job.  It seemed odd to me, but I guess he was more comfortable talking about work than house keeping.

As I observed the people around us I realised that my wife and I were the only couple that had our arms around each other or were holding hands the majority of the time.  My wife also kept grabbing my ass, which didn’t seem all that appropriate, but hey, it’s her co-workers. 

After an hour and a half the party was coming to an end as it was really just a cocktail hour party, not a full blown shindig.  We left and headed for dinner.  I’ll skip that as we were both a bit disappointed in the restaurant we selected and my wife was distracted by a sinus headache. 

Since my wife wasn’t feeling all that well, but the night was still young, we decided to take advantage of having a baby sitter and did some Christmas shopping and we needed to get a gift for our children’s friends birthday party Saturday morning. 

When we were done shopping we decided to call it a night.  Despite my wife’s headache she was horny and wanted to get me home.  As she drove she told me to tell her about any  recent thoughts I’d had about our arrangement. 

I asked her if she felt like the more we “did this” the more dominant she was becoming.  She thought about it a moment and agreed that she did feel that way.  I told her I felt the same. 

My wife told me that she had thought it over and had decided that I should buy a rubber (or at least “stretchy”) cock ring this weekend.  She didn’t want me buying it online and instead wanted me to get it locally.  She told me she like the idea of it and would prefer to have me get a metal one, but to start out thought it best to get an inexpensive “starter cock ring”.  Once we used it a few times she would decide if she likes it and if so would measure me for a more expensive metal ring.

We also talked about how the emails we sent about my assignments were a turn on for us.  My wife explained the reason they got her so hot was because she had the time to phrase things in a dominant tone that doesn’t come naturally to her.  So, she wants to be and sound more dominant, but it doesn’t come easily to her yet.  When she has the time to compose what she wants to say she can figure out how to do it in more of a dominant tone.  It’s coming along a little better in conversation as well (especially when she isn’t thinking about it, in my opinion), but she admits it will take time.

I then admitted to her that I occasionally masturbate to the edge of orgasm.  It wasn’t that often, as I don’t get a whole lot of private time while watching two small children, but when the opportunity arises I take it.  Hell, I’ve got erections half the day anyway.  My wife commented that she wasn’t sure she like that and told me she would have to think about it and would get back to me on it.

We soon arrived home and as soon as the baby sitter was out the door my wife went to bed and told me to meet her there in five minutes.  When I got there my wife had me undress slowly for her.  She told me how sexy I had looked that night and how happy she was to “show me off” at the party.  When I got into bed she told me that I had earned my release but I was not allowed to cum until she told me.  We began to kiss and touch each other a bit before she told me to use my tongue on her. 

I took great pleasure in my duty and passionately made love to her with my tongue.  When she had had enough she brought me up and told me to get on my knees. 

“Show me my cock”, she demanded.  I moved closer to her and she grabbed my cock with one hand and my balls with her other.  “This is MY cock”, she said as she squeezed.  “MINE”!  She then briefly put her mouth around the head of my cock.  Quickly her mouth was gone and she squeezed again and again stated, “This is MY cock”.  Again she very briefly put her mouth around the head as if to remind me of what I was missing and only she had the power to offer.  She continued to hold onto her cock and as I shook with desire and the intense, if brief, feeling of her mouth on my penis and became overwhelmed by her dominance.  “It’s yours to do with as you wish”, I told her.  With that she let go and told me to “fuck me with my cock”.  She reminded me I was not allowed to cum until she told me.  I then lost myself in the pleasure of her pussy.  I couldn’t remember that last time it felt so wet.  She talked dirty to me a bit and I told her that I would do anything for her pussy and she smirked and told me “I know you will”. 

After she had cum she had me stop for a moment and explained to me that I had earned my release and was now allowed to cum.  By this point my head was swimming in subspace.  I made love to her with her as she reminded me of my position in our arrangement.  I wouldn’t say I had the biggest orgasm of my life, but it was definitely the most intense.  The knowledge that I came because my wife allowed it, because I had somehow earned it, added a dimension to my orgasm that I had never felt before.  It was as if the orgasm lasted for minutes instead of seconds.  It was utterly amazing, and it was all because I had been denied, and then allowed, release.  WOW!

We lay together and talked a bit, but she started feeling crappy again and I left her to curl up in bed and get some rest.

The next morning she still was not feeling well, but the children insisted on her getting up and making them breakfast.  I told her I would get up and do it, but she told me to stay in bed.  We both knew that it would just be easier as the kids would throw a fit if thier routine was interrupted.  So my wife got up with them for a little while before coming back to bed and my getting up with the kids.  I told her to get some rest and feel better and went about my day.

I was still on cloud nine thinking about the previous nights events.  I cleaned up a tiny bit in the kitchen which was trashed after breakfast and did some jobs on the computer.  I was slacking a bit, but I figured I didn’t have much to do that day and my wife wasn’t feeling well, so all I had to do was keep the kids quite and away from her and I had the rest of the day to do my chores.

Well, after a few hours my wife got up.  She came to the office where I was on the computer and said “You didn’t check on me”.  She wasn’t mad or disappointed, just matter of fact.  I apologized and told her “I thought it was more important that you weren’t disturbed”.

She left and I kept working on the computer.  She came back a few minutes later and said “You know you still have your regular chores to take care of”.  I told her that I was aware of that and that I would get to them when I finished what I was doing.  She then went into my children’s room and helped them make their beds.  I realised she meant business and stopped what I was doing and got to cleaning. 

That afternoon we took the kids to our friends child’s birthday party.  I only bring this up because of some interesting things that came up.  First, my wife actually seemed to Dom me a bit in subtle ways while we were there.  Nothing obvious to the casual observer, I think, but she had me fetch her a drink while we were talking with some others and took my seat in the process.  There were some other small things like that as well.

What was really interesting to me was that one of my closest friends has a new girlfriend.  This was my first chance to really get to know her (although we had already met).  Anyway, it quickly became clear who was wearing the pants in the relationship.  He’s told me over the last few weeks how amazingly happy he was to be with her, and how awesome she was, all while telling me how she was having him clean her garage, put up Christmas lights at her house, rake her back yard, etc.

At the party he told me that he had gotten in trouble because he tends to have angry outbursts.  Because of this she hadn’t given him any sex in four days.  So, he had quit dipping and hadn’t used a bad word all that day leading up to the party.  She was standing next to him while he told me this and told him to keep it up or else he wouldn’t be getting any sex any time soon.  I told her that I’d never seen him so well behaved and to keep it up because obviously it was working.

As we drove home my wife pointed out that clearly my friend and I have more in common that we thought.

When we got home my wife informed me that she looked forward to using her cock later that night, but first I needed to finish my chores.  So, after dinner I continued to clean as she put the kids to bed.  When she was done she played on the computer as I mopped the floor, which she told me to do that night instead of Monday as scheduled.  One of our children had spilled chocolate milk earlier in the day and “mopped” it up himself making a bigger mess.  So, as I mopped she played.

When I was finally done cleaning I made a fire and we sat down in front of it to have a few drinks and watch TV.  We talked a bit more about the arrangement and I was informed that I could no longer masturbate without supervision.  We talked about her reasoning and I was a bit surprised and upset to find out she had misunderstood me and she herself was disturbed by what she thought I meant.  Apparently she didn’t catch on to what I thought I emphasized, which is that I rarely get a chance to masturbate as I have the kids all day and no privacy.  What she concentrated on was that I had said I repeatedly bring myself to the edge of orgasm.  In her mind I was neglecting the children to sit around all day and masturbate.  I assured her that I couldn’t even if I wanted to as the children would destroy the house if left unattended for very long, and that what I meant was that on the occasion I do get to masturbate I’ll bring myself to the edge as many times as I can in the short amount of private time that I have.  She remained unconvinced and told me I was no longer allowed to do it when alone, but that it could be part of our time together.  I can live with that.

We talked about some other things as well, including my chores for the next day.  I had to go out and buy some things to get my handy man assignment done as well as purchase my cock ring for her cock and some other things that I needed to get.  When we were done she left for bed and told me to meet her there shortly.

After getting into bed she had me present her cock to her again before putting my tongue to work.  After a while she had me come up and fuck her with her cock, but reminded me I was not allowed to cum.  She used it to her desire, and although she didn’t cum she had satisfied herself and had me go get her some water and went to sleep.

Sunday was a great day and after cleaning up from breakfast and making the beds I left on my shopping errands.  My first stop was at the adult mega-store.  I was a bit disappointed in the cock ring options.  How can a store with about 10,000 dildos and vibrators have a selection of about ten cock rings?!?!?  Although I didn’t find exactly what I wanted I chose the next closest thing and went on with my shopping trip.  My wife informed me that the next time I need to purchase something I should go to the gay sex toy store where they concentrate on toys for men, not women.  She told me she knows they carry a large array of cock rings there.  I’m secure in my sexuality and even work in the “gay” neighborhood, but I’m not so sure that I’m looking forward to that day.

I got home later that afternoon and my wife decided she wanted to go grocery shopping alone.  It was a large list and although we normally go as a family on Sundays, she decided she would like the time alone.

While she was gone I did more jobs around the house and completed one of my handy man assignments.  I then started on a project of my own, which is to hang some Christmas lights around our covered patio in the back yard. 

When my wife got home we put away groceries and made dinner.  After dinner she put the kids to bed and I started cleaning up.  When she was done she got out her laptop and sat at the kitchen table while I cleaned around her.

“I think in the future I should have you do this with fewer clothes”, she told me.

“What ever you would like, I would be glad to do”, I responded.

She continued to play around and relax as I worked around her.  She commented on how much she liked our new arrangement and how she liked to watch me work while she could relax.  I told her I liked it that way as well. 

“I’ve been horny thinking about using my cock all day.  I can’t wait to try it out with my new toys”, she told me.  “Let me know when you are finished because I can’t wait”.

I soon finished and she allowed me to relax and sit next to her for a bit as she continued to use her laptop.  When she was done she went to our bed room and told me to follow shortly.

When I got there she again had me undress slowly and then get out the cock rings (it’s a set of 3).  I put them next to the bed as she informed me that from now on I’ll be working in the kitchen topless and that she can’t wait to watch me mop the floor that way.  She then reminded me that I was not allowed to cum before we started kissing and touching.  Once she had me hard she told me to put on the rings.  When I had done that she told me to get on my knees (our new routine?) and present her cock to her.  Again, as on Friday night, she grabbed it with both hands and squeezed and announced it belonged to her before briefly teasing me with her mouth on the head of her cock which again made me swoon.  I couldn’t believe how much larger my cock seemed to get almost instantly from the rings.  My wife put my mouth to work and brought herself close to orgasm with it before using her cock.  She rode it to the “longest” orgasm of her life.  She said it wasn’t multiple orgasms, but that the more she fucked me the longer her orgasm went on until she couldn’t take it any more and had me pull out. 

I took off the rings but stayed hard.  When my wife had recovered from her orgasm she asked me how I liked the rings.  I told them that I found them quite pleasing, especially the one that went behind my testicles and kind of pushed them forward.  The one that went behind the head of the penis didn’t seem to really do much, but wasn’t unpleasent.  I asked her if she felt anything from the little bumps on them and she said she didn’t, but as long as the rings did their job she was happy with them.  So, it seems like we’ll be using them from now on.

My wife had me go get us a couple of beers and asked me to stay with her and help her with the crossword puzzle, which I gladly did.  We also talked a bit more about our arrangement.  First, I asked her if I could masturbate, as I still had a raging hard on.  She told me I could and watched as I brought myself to the edge several times.  She then told me she really like the idea of my getting teased this way, and told me that on nights she wasn’t interested in sex that she would tease me this way or have me tease myself.  I told her that I would like that very much.

She also told me that she was going to amend the merit system because I had barely received an acceptable grade for Saturday (my excellent job mopping saving me from an unacceptable).  I agreed that it wasn’t perfect as the two middle grades were essentially the same, so we really only needed three grades.  She disagreed with that, but instead thought the points were what needed to be adjusted.  She feels that the grade of acceptable isn’t really acceptable at all.  Doing just enough to get by should be punished.  She told me that she was going to be changing it so that a grade of unacceptable would put me at zero points, acceptable was -1 point, good was 1 point, and exceptional was 2 points.  When I reached 4 points I will be allowed a release.  We would no longer be using the 4 day system.  With this new system I will not know when I’m allowed release as the points will be kept by her and she will let me know when I have enough points for release.  If the day I have enough points falls on a work night I will have to wait until my next night off as I am only allowed release in her presence.  Quite frankly, this new system has me incredibly excited and turned on.  It isn’t set in stone yet, as my wife wishes to tweak it a bit more, but so far it seems a much better system.

So, we layed in bed talking and doing the crossword as I edged myself.  It was a pretty great night.  After a while my wife tired and went to bed, sending me on my way with my blue balls.

I can’t wait for tonight!