Christmas is coming (that makes one of us)

Yesterday was my annual physical with Dr. Hottie (as my wife calls her).  I’m pretty sure I wrote about my physical last year, but I couldn’t find the post for it.  Maybe I didn’t write about it…  Anyway, my Dr. is a very attractive and intelligent young woman.  I had gone for years without a regular Dr. so asked the specialist I have seen for years for a recommendation.  When I called the office of the recommended Dr.’s I was informed that they were not taking new patients, but that they had brought in a talented new Dr. who was.  And that is how I got to be a patient of Dr. Hottie.  So, last year, the night before my first physical since high school, my wife decided to give me a release so I wouldn’t get over excited during my exam.  I’m very glad she did.  This year was a different story.

I was actually curious to see if there would be any noticeable difference in a prostate for somebody who hadn’t had an orgasm in three weeks and only 22 in a year.  Apparently there isn’t.  The Dr. said my prostate was fine.  Side note, last year when she checked my prostate she said, “it’s nicer when a woman does this, isn’t it”?  I was speechless and she continued with, “… smaller fingers”.  A joke and sexual innuendo?!  I love Dr. Hottie!  It’s also very strange to have a conversation with somebody who is not your wife who is holding your testicles and asking if you touch them often.  Granted it was in respect to checking for testicular cancer, but she wasn’t checking while we were talking.  She was just holding them.

Anyway, I’ve got a clean bill of health and when I told my wife about my prostate being fine, even with all of the denial and limited orgasms.  She replied that she hadn’t even thought about the effect of that on my prostate, but was relieved none the less.  At that point I thought she may ease up on the denial out of concern for my prostate.  As I would find out later, no such luck.

The physical was early in the morning and my wife took some time off from work so our youngest wouldn’t miss gymnastics class while I was at the Dr.  I met them at the gym afterward and my wife informed me that she would be taking my car to work so I could check on a problem with hers.  She continued to make requests/demands from me the rest of the day without feeling, or at least showing, that she was self conscious about it.  She was definitely in the zone, so to speak.

My wife has always had the (bad) habit of telling me about surprises she has for me.  I’ve never understood it and have told her many times over the years that it’s not really a “surprise” if I know it’s coming.  She contends that since I don’t know what it is that it’s still a surprise.  I’ve also told her that it is torture for me.  I hate knowing that I’m going to get something, not knowing what it is, at a specific point in time that is not right at that moment.  I think that’s why she likes it so much.  Well, she might not realise it, but she put a new twist on it last night.  We went to bed and she had me get her vibe for her.  While she used it she asked me how long it has been since my last orgasm.  I told her that it has been three weeks.  I continued to share and told her that I’d had 22 orgasms this year, and that the longest I’ve gone between orgasms was five weeks.  This seemed to turn her on and she teased me about knowing all the statistics.  I told her that it’s easy to remember all your orgasms when you have so few.  She continued to tease me and said that it was only a couple of weeks until Christmas and that I wasn’t allowed to cum before then.  “We know you can make it five weeks since you just told me you’ve done it before”, she teased.  Yeah, but what I didn’t tell her is how I was going insane by the fifth week.  Of course, that time I didn’t know if she even realised she was making me wait so long.  It will be different now that she’s stated I will be waiting until Christmas.

After informing me of this she told me to go down on her.  This time I left the device on.  I have to say it’s pretty damn sexy to give oral sex to your wife while in a chastity device.  That is until she says, “get that thing off, I want to fuck your cock”.  Actually, that was pretty hot too.  As I took off the device she used her vibe.  As my erection grew she asked me, “is that thing ready to fuck yet”?  A few more strokes and it was ready.  She had a couple of orgasms, one from intercourse and one from oral before dismissing me.  I asked if I could masturbate as she started using her vibe again and she allowed me to… for about thirty seconds.  She then told me to stop touching myself and leave the room so she could masturbate in peace.  I don’t know how many more orgasms she had, but when I went to bed later she had of course left her vibe on my pillow to wash and put away.

I was so tempted to spy on her while she masturbated.  I wanted desperately to hear her cumming again.  But I resisted the temptation to spy, as well as to masturbate.


Five weeks.  A gift of Christmas orgasm.  Well, at least time has seemed to be flying by recently.  And I’ve got a lot to do over the next couple of weeks.  Perhaps I’ll be too distracted to notice that I’m about to explode.  The anticipation is killing me already.

So, it looks like I’ll be having a total of 24 orgasms this year after all, assuming that I’ll be allowed to cum on New Year’s Eve.  Dammit.  I shouldn’t have even typed that.  Now it’s out there.  I probably just jinxed myself.  What really surprises me is how easily my wife can take the Dominant role at times, while at other times she seems to forget that she can have me do anything she asks of me.  I’m glad that she happens to be in the Dominant role right now as it will hopefully take a lot of stress off of her in this very busy time of year.

OK, now I’m just rambling.  It must be the coffee… or the subspace…

10 Responses

  1. Good to hear the prostrate is OK! ;?)

    I’ve just started exploring chastity with my Queen, and I’ve heard a lot of stories about prostrate health as it relates to chastity. Unfortunately, no one seems to come up with any actual studies or proof…… way or the other. Health is always important….even when you have a kink.

    I’ve also been trying to figure out exactly how to work this wordpress thing. I’m not sure what the Blogroll is, or how to get on it, or how people get onto mine. I’d also like to know how to send private messages to various bloggers, or how to allow them to send messages to me. Perhaps that’s not allowed here?

    Anyway, good luck with your D/s relationship. It’s good to know there are lots of us out there.


  2. I love the thought of you being sent from the room, so that your wife could masturbate with her vibe in peace. It’s a bit like being cuckold to a vibe. What did you do, where did you got and for how long?

    It always amazes me how Jane can be so totally dominant and in the zone, as you put it, one minute and then find it so difficult at other times. People say it takes time for your wife’s dominant character to come out, but I often wonder just how long. I know everyone is different, but I just wish that Jane enjoyed the feeling that she was in charge, and therefore wanted to have that feeling more often.

  3. Oh, you slut! You just want to be used by women. Like I do.

    I have fond memories of my first and only pysical examination by a female. It heightened my awareness of my need to be overseen by women. You may be interested in reading it at

  4. AAT – I left to tidy up the kitchen a bit and made sure the coffee was ready for the morning. I did walk by the bedroom once on my way to our office and paused to listen, but couldn’t hear anything. I probably spent most of the time on the computer.

    SP – Yes. It’s true. It’s all true! However, as much as I look forward to any visit with Dr. Hottie, it’s no match for the submissive feeling I get when I go to the dentist and get my teeth cleaned. That always puts me in the zone.
    By the way, Dr. Hottie seems to be very pro-women. When I first met her and listed my ailments every Dr. she recommended to me was a women. I ignored most of these ailments as they weren’t that serious or annoying, but took her advice on the dermatologist to get rid of some warts I have. Although the dermatologist is an attractive and intelligent woman as well, there is nothing sexy about wart removal… well, except that she always marvels at my pain threshold… that’s a little sexy…

  5. As always in health issues, there are lots of stories but few facts.
    However there is a published research report
    “Ejaculation Frequency and Subsequent Risk of Prostate Cancer” in JAMA (Journal of the American Medical Association), one of the best renowned medical journals in the world). The article is published in volume 2004;291:1578-1586.
    The researchers found, that ejaculation frequency was not statistically significantly associated with risk of advanced prostate cancer.
    Their conclusion was: Our results suggest that ejaculation frequency is not related to increased risk of prostate cancer.
    Interestingly, they noted a non significant but suggestive decrease in risk of prostate cancer among men in the lowest category of ejaculation frequency across a lifetime.
    The lowest category is defined as those reporting 0-3 ejaculations a month.
    In non-medical terms: Chastity does not give you prostate cancer, so our kink is not a health issue. Your keyholder can restrict your orgasms even harder without any risk for your health. However I would advice a gradual increase of time between orgasms to give the prostate gland time to adjust, otherwise there might be an increased risk of prostatitis (inflammation in the prostate gland).
    Good news or bad news?
    Personally, I had my fourth orgasm this year in November, and it doesn’t look like it’s going to happen again soon. No prostate health problems to report.

  6. Ritemate, you are a spoil-spurt.

  7. Yep, I guess that about sums up my philosophy: if we don’t spurt, we become more eager to spoil our mistresses.

  8. Yes glad that check up went well, really enjoying getting caught up on your blog!

  9. Great to hear from you HH. Just caught up on your writing as well.
    Sorry I haven’t been posting guys. It’s been a hectic holiday.

  10. LOL at you wanting to spy!

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