I can’t stop obsessing about the WLM today. Sure, I’ve been obsessing about it for months, but today I just can’t stop thinking about it. I think a good part of the reason is that not only am I excited about it, but last night my wife seemed to be excited about it, and excited about getting to spend time together as well.
In the very short time we had last night between her coming home from work and my leaving for work, she was able to really push my buttons. And she did it with such ease! It was just a few small things, but they really got me going.
First, while she was changing out of her work clothes and we were talking, she handed me her shirt to hang up. She didn’t say anything, she just handed it to me as if it were nothing.
Then, as we left the bedroom to head to the kitchen she asked me to get her shoes. I got them out of the closet and put them at her feet. She politely asked me to carry them to the kitchen for her, which I did.
Next, as we were getting dinner ready, she took out a wine glass and put it on the counter and didn’t say anything. It was implied that I would open the bottle of wine and pour her a glass. Before we sat down to eat she handed me the glass and said “refill, please”.
These were all such small things, but they each packed a wallop! She wasn’t hesitant about it and she didn’t seem to feel awkward. It appeared as if she were totally comfortable in doing it. And that is really the greatest part of it all. Not only am I getting my jollies, but it really seems like she is enjoying it as well.
So, why wouldn’t I be obsessing today?
So, I’ve been working on a list. Not a list of rules or anything. I guess it’s really a list of things I’d like to talk to her about. Things about a WLM and what we would like out of it. It was pretty easy to come up with things I’d like to get out of it, and it’s clear that she needs to be getting things out of it. But is there something in particular she would like? Is there something about me that perhaps she would like to tweak (no pun intended)? I hope we get a chance to talk about it tonight. Once we know what boundaries there are, if any at all, then I think it should be fairly smooth sailing as long as I don’t rock the boat, lol.
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